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Social Subtext Must Stay Implicit To Function

Much of social life runs on subtext that everyone tacitly understands, but making it explicit destroys the basis of trust or goodwill — for example, openly telling someone you only invited them to dinner to reciprocate their prior invitation, though true, is antithetical to friendship; like actors who refuse to play a scene with only one literal level, we expect and require multiple layers of motive.

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Speaker

Robin Hanson

Evidence Quote

we are really at some level we kind of know that people are quite often pretending one motive and really acting another motive

Source

119 - Hidden MotivesMaking Sense with Sam Harris
Created: 6/14/2026, 2:08:54 AM

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