John and Julie Gottman's research on married couples predicting divorce reveals that couples who feel anger or contempt toward each other have worse outcomes than expected, but couples who feel disgust will almost certainly not stay together because disgust signals fundamental rejection.

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Eve Ekman

Evidence Quote

if you feel angry or wish that someone would do better you're still in the game with them if you feel disgust towards them the relationship will not survive

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What's shame got to do with it? - Dr. Eve Ekman & Tenzin Chogkyi.Science & Wisdom LIVE
Created: 8/11/2026, 1:14:25 AM

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