
Bret Weinstein on Ending Cancel Culture, Avoiding Civil War and How We Can Unify
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Evolutionary theorist and “professor in exile” Bret Weinstein was thrust into the midst of America’s culture wars in 2017 while teaching at Evergreen State College. Since then he has emerged as one of the leaders of the Intellectual Dark Web. He is very aware of the severe divisions plaguing our society, and understands the energy behind those divisions. On this episode of Conversations with Tom Bilyeu, Bret Weinstein advocates learning to see both individual responsibility and collective responsibility simultaneously. He discusses the Unity 2020 platform, shares some insight on Andrew Yang’s presidency, and talks about what we need to do now to avoid civil war, environmental destruction, and general moral failure.
SHOW NOTES:
You are living in your own simulation, which is your biggest asset and your biggest liability [2:11] Fights, whether marital or societal, are rarely only about the explicit content [3:18] Those who see the hazard clearly don’t understand where the energy is coming from [7:26] Bret describes rent-seeking behavior and how it is impossible to eliminate it entirely [13:25] Bret and Tom discuss learned helplessness and why it’s such a bad idea [18:31] Bret describes the collective responsibility we have as human beings [25:03] Tom compares liberals and conservatives to visionaries and integrationists [28:35] Radical change sucks, but may be necessary, and personal responsibility is paramount [33:10] Tom and Bret discuss the severe divisions in current American society [36:28] Bret describes the Unity 2020 plan and why we need to remove influence peddling [44:22] Tom explains why he was so interested in Andrew Yang [45:54] Bret talks about what you can learn from Andrew Yang’s presidency [49:41] A groundswell of support is more important than naming a ticket for Unity 2020 [54:04] Tom talks about the intoxication of rage and cognitive bias [1:00:06] We are the ones we have been waiting for [1:04:25] Tom and Bret discuss the leaders we need to have and how to find them [1:06:21] Bret talks about the desire to remain unenlightened [1:14:18] The US tries to step out of the normal evolutionary current and do something different [1:20:01] Tom and Bret discuss the problem with attacking the scientific method itself [1:22:49] Our education system has screwed people up so badly that they don’t want to learn [1:29:53] Natural selection has turned sex for humans into a bonding mechanism [1:36:05] Tom discusses Thomas Sowell and the Black Lives Matter movement [1:46:26] Bret discusses the likelihood of Donald Trump being reelected [1:50:41] Bret explains why schools don’t get fixed [1:53:22]
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Weinstein argues that the United States faces a critical juncture where institutional corruption and ideological capture of foundational tools (science, logic, the nuclear family) threaten civilizational collapse, and that a Unity 2020 ticket of patriotic, non-partisan leaders operating above influence-peddling is necessary to break the two-party trap and prevent civil war.
- The two-party system traps voters in false choices between unacceptable outcomes, preventing genuine reform
- Ideological movements attacking science, metrics, and logic as 'white' are uninventing the tools required for human liberation and progress
- Personal responsibility and institutional reform must work in tandem; focusing only on individual virtue while systems rot leads to civilizational failure
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Once you become convinced the entire social construction is false and full of hidden trapdoors, seeking more evidence of falsity becomes addictive and prevents rational assessment.
“once you become convinced that you're not actually in the real world the stories that are being fed to you are manifestly untrue that the entire social construction is not what it appears to be that there are hidden passages trapdoors panic rooms everywhere it becomes pretty addictive because you can't imagine that you never noticed this before”
Bilyeu's 'physics of progress': all progress follows the same pattern—(1) identify your goal, (2) identify the problem standing between current state and goal, (3) create an informed hypothesis about solutions with testable levers, (4) run an experiment, (5) measure against predetermined data, (6) analyze results and iterate. This is identical to the scientific method.
“everything starts with your goal cool where are you trying to get to then you have to identify the problem that stands the impediment that stands between where you are now and the goal...you have to create an informed hypothesis...that informed hypothesis by its nature has to include levers...you run the experiment and then you look at the data...and then you analyze it...you have a better informed hypothesis and now you can run another test and so you repeat”
Arguments between people are often better understood by turning down the sound and observing nonverbal behavior, because content is secondary to the underlying emotional and behavioral dynamics, and this same principle applies to larger societal conflicts.
“there's a lot that goes on in human space that isn't really about the content right you think it's about the content because you're human and you're wired to process language because there's so much conveyed in it but very frequently you'll understand an argument between people best if you turn down the sound so you can't hear what's being said and you just look at what's going on and the same thing is i think true in the larger context”
Bilyeu's manufacturing hiring: He hired formerly incarcerated people, gang members, and people with felony records. One came initially to launder drug money through the business but stayed and eventually earned nearly $100k/year. These outcomes prove that 'bad circumstances' are not deterministic; frame of reference and access to progress tools matter more.
“we put out on the street...that we would hire people...even if they had a felony record and so we ended up getting all of these like way low income people...gang bangers like guys with the teardrop tattoos...i was very impressed with the number of people who were extraordinary people incredibly capable...just had a weird ass frame of reference and if i could give them an empowering frame of reference then...they could go on to do something”
The United States is unique in attempting to step outside normal evolutionary dynamics (in-group competition based on relatedness) and foster cooperation based on principle rather than kinship; abandoning this experiment to reinvigorate population-level conflict would mean returning to genocide and war.
“the united states is special and it's special because it attempts to do something that i know is possible but is very very difficult which is to step out of the normal evolutionary dynamic...the normal evolutionary dynamic has us cooperating on the basis of our relatedness...the united states aims to set aside those population level differences to foster a cooperation based on something else...the christian insight of um you know the story of the good samaritan that relatedness is not the basis on which we should uh view each other favorably”
A tantrum is the strategy children learn works best for getting what they want, and once children age out of this strategy, the world rejects it. However, if an identity is built entirely around wielding tantrums effectively ('oppression Olympics'), that identity becomes dysfunctional and maladaptive in adult contexts.
“when you're a child...the point at which you are most needy and weak is when you're a child and what is the mechanism that every child very quickly learns gets them what they want a tantrum right...and then we go out into the world and the world slaps us around and says stop you're obnoxious i don't want to be around you right”
Between a stimulus and response there is a gap, and in that gap lies the freedom and power to choose your response; this freedom of response is what allows someone to survive trauma or transcend circumstance, and Viktor Frankl proved this survives even concentration camps.
“viktor frankl is right and i can't control the stimulus but i can control the response even in the middle of a concentration camp...he was like if you understand there's that gap between stimulus and response and you hold on to that that you can make radical change in your perspective or the way that you interpret things which is going to then influence your behavior which can in his example literally keep you alive or allow you to die”
Ideology that attacks science, metrics, and logic (by labeling them 'white' or 'Western') will destroy civilization's capacity to solve problems, because science and logic are universal tools that work regardless of who wielded them first, and rejecting them leaves only power and coercion.
“you cannot let me end this interview without us talking about shut down stem...once people detach themselves from what works what moves you towards your goal then it is it you you can no longer in any effective way move forward”
The system is rigged in a way that misfortune is not evenly distributed, and this concentration of misfortune can be predicted with high certainty based on historical patterns of oppression; zip code is the single best predictor of where misfortune will concentrate.
“the system is rigged and that it is rigged in a way that the um the misfortune is not evenly distributed you can predict with a relatively high degree of certainty where the misfortune is going to be concentrated based on historical patterns of oppression...zip code is by far the best um because it does capture the fraction of it that that tracks with ethnicity but it doesn't limit it to that”
Your brain creates a simulation through which you interact with the world—not a true simulation but a constructed interface designed to keep you alive rather than represent reality faithfully, and understanding this allows you to reinterpret that package in ways advantageous to you.
“your brain is creating a simulation for you through which you interact with the world and i just thought okay well if it's sort of focused on keeping me alive and it's not necessarily focused on you know just representing reality like there are this many photons bouncing off of this object...are there ways that i can reinterpret that package that would be more advantageous for me”
Madness is uncommon in individuals but common in crowds; crowds naturally tend toward madness as a default state, and this crowd dynamic is the dangerous force currently driving polarization.
“madness is very uncommon in the individual and basically the the default in crowds and so what we have now is is a crowd that is gaining momentum and it's moving in a direction and getting uh other people to sort of step out of the stream”
Science advances one funeral at a time, meaning paradigm shifts require old guard to die rather than change their minds; this is why intellectual humility requires continually reassessing your own conclusions.
“i think it was max planck who said science advances one funeral at a time yeah funeral by funeral and and i just thought oh my god why why how do you not read that quote and go oh i have to change everything about myself because i refuse to to fall for something so predictable”
When you provide people with empowering frame of reference and teach them the scientific method applied to their lives (goal-setting, hypothesis, testing, learning), they can dramatically transform their circumstances regardless of systemic barriers.
“walking them down the line of like hey here's how you improve something you have a goal you set it you have a metric that you're marching towards that just seemed if you can get them on that path then you've really got something that's going to take you somewhere impactful”
Plato's Cave is the fundamental dynamic: most people do not want enlightenment; those who see outside the cave and return to report what they have seen face resistance and even killing of the messenger; the system wants to suppress awakening.
“i guess i guess i know exactly what it is it's plato's cave and you know you started uh talking about the matrix and plato's cave is the matrix... the desire of most people many people some important force not to be enlightened right that there's something that is served by you know the killing of the person who's seen what's outside the cave when they come back and try to report that's the the most frightening process of all”
Humans are unique in that they engage in sexual activity outside fertile windows and after menopause, using sex as a bonding mechanism; this is a novel evolutionary development distinct from reproduction, making sex a gift that should be treasured, not used frivolously.
“selection has altered the meaning of sex for humans right it has delivered us an incredible gift which we are now treating so horrifyingly... human beings have sex when the production of offspring is not a possibility... people have sex after menopause they have sex when it's not the fertile moment in a woman's cycle... that i think people don't understand how unique a situation that is”
Bilyeu's stated mission is to ensure no one reaches age 15 without encountering growth mindset through narrative story, because narrative drives understanding to the limbic/emotional level at the critical developmental window in a way that logical statements cannot.
“my literally my stated mission is no one should ever get to the age of 15 without encountering a growth mindset and encountering it through story because i saying it like we're saying it now it hits people logically but it doesn't hit them emotionally we need narrative to drive down to the limbic level and and really make change do it at the age of imprinting”
Attempting to eliminate all negative impacts of your wealth and influence through perfect ethical living is game-theoretically irrational and self-defeating, because the effort required to trace and eliminate all negative externalities would consume all your time and influence, leaving you unable to do positive work.
“you can't really be if you were to try to figure out what effect you're having on the world in every detail and you were to try to eliminate all of the negative stuff it would take all your time and more you wouldn't finish the job so you'd be left ineffective in the stuff that you're doing that's positive without eliminating the negative stuff”
The clitoris is positioned externally (not internally) because selection has optimized female sexual pleasure as a bonding mechanism requiring empathic connection, not just as reproductive reflex; the complexity of achieving female orgasm ensures pair bonding is based on genuine care.
“selection has altered the meaning of sex for humans right it has delivered us an incredible gift which we are now treating so horrifyingly but the gift is it has turned sex into a bonding mechanism...the orgasm has been democratized by selection and a mechanism for generating it has been provided by adaptation...it actually requires an empathic connection in order to to tune in to your partner well enough to deliver the goods and in some sense that's the magic of the thing is by creating a puzzle surrounding sexual gratification in women the necessity of a close connection is is introduced into pair bonding”
Conservatives understand personal responsibility clearly but often miss collective responsibility; liberals understand collective obligation but miss personal responsibility—this is a yin-yang dynamic where each side is one half of a necessary equation, and both are needed in tension.
“there is this interesting dynamic between conservatives and liberals where conservatives see very clearly the personal responsibility part of the equation and they often times don't see the collective responsibility part and liberals are exactly the inverse”
Learned helplessness through oppression-framing (positioning people as helpless victims) is self-defeating because it creates the exact opposite of the conditions needed for liberation; fulfillment comes from agency, mastery, and hard work, not from victimhood identity.
“the oppression olympics is just destined to fail because you're you're creating a frame of reference of victimhood of i don't have agency...this is why i think the oppression olympics is just destined to fail”
The primary obstacle to reform is the two-party trap: any attempt to propose something outside the duopoly's control is met with 'you'll empower the worse option,' which is logically false because a bad candidate losing votes to a good alternative is the fault of the bad candidate, not the alternative.
“the primary obstacle is not a complex one the primary obstacle is that each and every time you attempt to propose something outside of the duopoly's control you are told if you do that you are going to empower the thing farther from your values and you're going to rob the thing closer to your values therefore you're not allowed to even think those thoughts and that is wrong”
The homelessness problem is not primarily caused by lack of housing or welfare; it is a feature, not a bug, of a wage depression system that keeps people desperate and dependent on employers, generating a permanent underclass that depresses wages for everyone above.
“why there's so much homelessness...the homelessness problem is the bottom of a ladder where depressing wages all the way along is a feature not a bug right you depress wages by having people below you whatever rung you're on there always people below you who would be more than happy to take your job which reduces your bargaining power”
The distinction between visceral appeal and systemic viability: even the most compelling narrative-driven movement (like Red Guard revolution) was destructive, while Unity 2020 needs both compelling narrative AND workable structure.
“you're competing against a narrative that gets people feeling like there is a dragon to be slayed and they're willing to run down the streets it's intoxicating and even if like dude i know you know mao's china um the the revolution the the red guard...when i think about me being 16 during the uprising of the red guard i had to put dunce caps on my teachers”
The Good Samaritan parable represents the Christian insight that moral worth is not based on relatedness, and cooperation based on inclusive empathy makes populations stronger; this principle underlies American democracy.
“it is in some weird sense it is the the christian insight of um you know the story of the good samaritan that relatedness is not the basis on which we should uh view each other favorably that there is something to be gained by being inclusive empathically inclusive and collaborating because it makes us stronger”
Males have asymmetric investment strategies: high investment in offspring with committed partners (paternal care helps offspring survival significantly) versus near-zero investment (mating and leaving is viable reproductive strategy because male parental investment is optional), making males drawn to 'hit and run' mating.
“males can have a very high investment in offspring and that's a very frequent way for males to reproduce but they obviously can have an almost no investment version of the strategy which although it's less successful because raising offspring without a father is more difficult it is such a bargain from the point of view of males that males find the prospect of it irresistible right this is why males are obsessed with um sex with women that they don't have any intention of seeing again”
The way out of escalating social conflict requires recognizing that you are being carried along by historical processes and patterns that repeat across time, and if enough people identify these patterns they may overcome the momentum, though the odds are against success.
“the way out if there is one does involve a recognition that you are being carried along by something that you may have an objective and a focus but that you are being carried along with a historical process and if you can recognize what processes this looks like from the past you'll know you don't want to go this direction it doesn't end well if enough of us can figure that out and manage to convey it then maybe we can overcome the momentum”
Unity 2020: A patriotic, above-politics ticket of one left-leaning and one right-leaning leader with equal power and mutual veto, selected for capability and patriotism, would break the two-party trap by ensuring that whichever way the electorate leans, core values on both sides are protected.
“what we need in order to fix the system is people who are above politics who are patriotic who are insightful and who are capable and we need them to understand the values on both sides the tension that exists that makes the system so dynamic and functional so you don't have to be afraid of electing a unity ticket because you know that your values whether you're left or right your values will be in the room somebody who understands what it is that you see will be present in that discussion at the very top level and will have um equal power in that discussion”
We are in a canoe headed toward a waterfall; the question is not whether the probability of escape is high, but whether there is any chance at all. Even a fraction-of-a-percent chance of reaching shore justifies paddling, making giving up irrational.
“i always think of it in terms of being on a i don't know a canoe or something headed for a waterfall at what point is the chance that you can paddle out of the path of the waterfall and get to shore before you go over so low that it's not worth your time and the answer is there is no point at which it's so low right if there's any chance at all that you can get to shore a fraction of a percent is enough giving up would be stupid”
The Smithsonian identified cultural values like 'hard work,' 'progress,' 'measuring results,' and 'striving to be the best' as markers of white supremacy; declaring these values problematic effectively removes the tools for liberation from the hands of oppressed populations.
“the second most disturbing thing to come out of all of this was the um smithsonian like these are all the things that are white and are there for problematic and it was like hard work progress measuring results striving to be the best i was like what the [ __ ] is happening”
The Democratic Party's primary objective is no longer serving the public; it is protecting rent-seeking elites. This is why candidates like Andrew Yang, who clearly would represent the public, are systematically sidelined.
“the democratic party does not want to represent the public because it has other priorities...andrew yang would clearly represent the public so he's a non-starter frankly i think he'll be a non-starter in 2024 or 2028”
Rent-seeking elites engage in opportunity hoarding—inserting themselves as middlemen (finance, management, policy) without creating actual value, extracting value instead—and this system makes even well-intentioned value creators unwitting participants in rent-seeking through portfolio investment.
“rent seeking being people that are sort of inserting themselves as money managers or finance people whatever they're not actually creating something they're not adding value to the system but they're extracting a ton of value”
Three factors predict entrance into American middle class with high reliability: (1) Don't have a child out of wedlock, (2) Get a high school diploma, (3) Get a job—following these three behaviors nearly guarantees middle-class status.
“there's like three things you have to do to succeed in america...i think they are don't get don't have a child out of wedlock get a high school diploma and get a job it's something like that like these really basic three things all but guarantee you entrance into the middle class”
If the United States fractures and ceases to exist as a unified superpower, it empowers China and/or Russia to become the next hegemonic pole, which threatens global stability in nuclear and nuclear reactor management, making civil war potentially destabilizing to the entire world.
“we're putting the world in jeopardy the process seems to be moving incredibly rapidly such that we can have a discussion about whether or not there's going to be something to salvage in 2024 or not this is an amazing level of danger that we are putting ourselves and the world in in light of that”
The Black Lives Matter movement is explicitly anti-nuclear family, which contradicts empirical data showing the nuclear family is the strongest predictor of individual success and societal stability—this contradiction reveals ideological capture overriding data.
“the black lives matter movement is explicitly anti-nuclear family but this is this is again one of these issues of look if you're going to attack science and you're going to declare it white and you're going to say the nuclear family is white and that therefore we have to uninvent these things”
Education's purpose is to upgrade the mind to maximum capability, not to produce useful workers; therefore, the best educators are those passionate about their subject matter, not those skilled at curriculum delivery.
“the purpose of education should be to upgrade the mind so it's maximally capable and the way to do that is to figure out who knows something has a passion for conveying it and how do we bring them on board and give them the freedom to figure out how to convey it”
In light of data about sexuality, monogamy, and pair-bonding effectiveness, following data wherever it leads (even if uncomfortable) is more important than protecting ideological commitments.
“there's like three things you have to do to succeed in america i may get these wrong if you know them please tell me that i'm wrong but i think they are don't get don't have a child out of wedlock get a high school diploma and get a job it's something like that like these really basic three things all but guarantee you entrance into the middle class and it's one of those look at the data”
Teachers are underpaid relative to their importance because the labor market sets their wages rather than subsidy raising them; to attract great people to teaching, you need compensation that competes with their alternatives, plus freedom to teach without draconian curriculum.
“there's a reason that schools are terrible that has a lot to do with the fact that somehow we have allowed the market to set the wages of the teachers when in fact we ought to be subsidizing this so that great people want to do it”
Public school failure is deliberately maintained, not accidental, because some portion of the population doesn't want other people's children to be educated well enough to compete with their own children.
“there is a reason that our public schools suck right it never gets stated which is that a large number of people do not want other people's children equipped to compete with their own children right are people really that sort of weak-minded is that is that conscious i think oh god this is terrible but i do worry that there are a lot of well-meaning people that just aren't they don't they don't cross a certain threshold of being able to think through the problem”
Skills have utility independent of narrative; architecture classes teach how to build bridges that don't fall, and this objective utility is what creates actual human progress.
“skills have utility they let you do things and you don't read a book to check a mark off you don't go to college to impress your parents you take architecture classes so you can build a bridge that doesn't fall down and once you understand that and that if you can do something other people can't do like you've now just moved humanity forward”
Even if Unity 2020 fails to elect a ticket, the movement could succeed in gathering together all the projects aimed at a better world (open source, crypto, makers, Game B, IDW) into a unified force that clears obstacles to systemic change.
“if it fails to elect a ticket to the white house it could still cause um all of the projects that aim for a better world to to collect into one we've got the open source movement we've got the cryptocurrency movement um we've got makers we've got game b right all of these things...why wouldn't they join together and understand that in effect the entire game is can we bring the things that we've learned...into a structure that has the power to implement them”
The mind is not a library (information repository) but a laboratory (testing ground for action); the point of knowledge is not to accumulate it but to test it against reality to see what actually allows you to influence the world.
“my my new thing is to get people to understand your mind is not a library your mind is a laboratory and once you realize ah the point of this knowledge is to run tests against it to see what actually allows me to influence the world”
If Biden wins and Democrats partner with Black Lives Matter to implement aspects of their ideology into policy, the result would be an unprecedented threat because it would weaponize the French Revolution pattern (directing people at each other to distract from elite corruption) in a novel way.
“something brand new which is the democratic party having partnered with the uh the black lives matter movement where it actually takes some of the insanity that they've been saying and turns it into policy which i think is quite plausible because the uh the purpose of the democratic party has become the protection of those rent-seeking elites...directing uh the people at each other so that they ignore the folks who have hoarded the opportunity is a natural move this is a new twist on it but it's a familiar pattern of history”
In interpersonal conflict, when positions accumulate momentum and neurochemistry becomes charged with anger and aggression, a tipping point is reached where reconnection becomes impossible without changing the underlying neurochemical state; this same dynamic operates at societal scale.
“you get so much momentum behind your positions that until the neurochemistry of that situation changes you can't re-see commonality you can't you can't feel the desire to connect anymore”
Evergreen College gave Weinstein total freedom to teach whatever material and however he wanted, which is 'magic' for educators who have passion; removing bad teachers quickly while protecting this freedom would create a marvelous educational system.
“we had total freedom to teach however we wanted teach whatever material we wanted...having a blank canvas is magic so you want the freedom to use it and you want a system that gets rid of people who will abuse it and if you can do those two things then you'll end up having a marvelous educational system”
Civil war is now a realistic possibility in the United States, and many people incorrectly calculate that because civil war is uncommon, it cannot be headed toward the nation.
“i find that i'm having a lot of conversations a week with people who seem to calculate that because civil war is not common it must not be headed our way and i just don't understand how they're ending up there so it's good to talk to somebody who spotted it as a real possibility because i'm quite sure it is”
If one willingly un-invents insight (like the scientific method) in order to achieve political goals, it reveals what kind of progress the actor actually wants; this signals an underlying desire for power, not liberation.
“it speaks to a willingness to uninvent insight in order to make progress right and that tells you what kind of progress they want to make”
Trying to achieve equality by turning tables of oppression rather than ending oppression itself, and doing so with imprecise targeting, is characteristic of current left-wing movements and fundamentally differs from actual liberation.
“you have the self-defined leftists delivering a set of prescriptions that doesn't uh seek to end oppression it seeks to turn the tables of oppression and worse it seeks to turn the tables of imagined depression oppression so that it's not even being careful about its targeting”
Academia has experienced a coup where empiricists have driven out theorists; expensive empirical work is incentivized by grant overhead, eliminating high-quality visionary work; the result is waste because theory and empiricism need each other—one provides vision, the other provides evidence.
“there has been a kind of coup inside academia where the empiricists have driven out the theorists... the way the university system is funded from grant overhead prioritizes expensive empirical work”
Weinstein is a radical (favoring fundamental change) not because he likes radical change—radical change is dangerous—but because the system is broken; the goal is to make the world work so well that one becomes a conservative, able to protect rather than transform.
“i would say i'm a radical because i believe only radical change will save us but i'm not a radical because i like radical change radical change sucks it's very dangerous right i want to live in a world that works so well that i get to be a conservative”
Leonard Cohen's line 'I have seen the future brother, it's murder' captures what happens when you put race-consciousness first and abandon universalism.
“maybe leonard cohen got it i've seen the future brother it's murder”
The anaphylactic shock thought experiment: if your daughter is dying and only the most morally despicable person on earth knows how to perform an emergency tracheotomy, rejecting their help to maintain moral purity is worse than their despicability.
“let's say that you have a daughter...she is um in anaphylactic shock her throat has closed and you call 9-1-1 and the most vile and despicable person in the world answers that call but they know how to perform an in-field tracheotomy...do you hang up the phone and try to find somebody else who you agree with or do you say i don't give a [ __ ] that you are the most despicable person on earth you have a piece of information that actually gets me something that i need”
Trump's reelection is more likely than current polling suggests because 2016 proved polls are unreliable, and more importantly, Trump has strong incentive to take dramatic action if facing defeat, which creates catastrophic risk.
“it's possible that events cause the election to go towards trump which i think is far more likely than people imagine based on current polling one we should have learned our lesson in 2016 about polls and trump that they don't tell the full story...but in light of the powers of the presidency i don't see trump allowing himself to go to a stunning defeat without dramatic moves on his part to reverse that and i fear what he might do to avoid it”
Extrapolate: taking what you know to be factual and following its logical implications to their natural conclusion reveals where current trends are heading and why they're frightening.
“i want to emphasize one word people extrapolate and i was like yes yes please like follow that logic to its natural conclusion and that sums up why i am freaked out”
If honorable, capable leadership freed from influence peddling and with access to the best insights simply made proper judgments about what is best for Americans, the system would begin to improve rapidly and cascade through Congress, where many people are trapped in corruption but would prefer honest work.
“if you simply uh took the influence peddling out of the white house and you had people who were honorable who had the resources to solicit the best insight that they could source and who made a proper judgment on what was likely to be best for the american people i believe you would begin to see things get better rapidly and what's more i believe it would cascade through the system”
The main barrier to Unity 2020's success is that it lacks 'sex appeal'—compelling narratives and charismatic messengers; people are excited by dragons to slay and revolutionary narratives, not by abstract ideas about cross-partisan collaboration.
“what's holding us back from just simply getting behind this idea it doesn't carry any ideological content that would cause anybody to look at it and say oh that's not that's not me... you don't have sex appeal yet”
Obama's oratory and moral authority made his presidency possible; unity 2020 needs two orators with comparable charisma and moral authority who can inspire people at an emotional/limbic level.
“when barack obama came along ignore the the effect of the policies when he got elected man it was [ __ ] electric and i was over the moon i loved the slogan um the whole notion of hope”
The best use of power and leverage is to deliver narratives that empower individuals so they know who they are and are better equipped to function, paired with ensuring that success is decoupled from zip code; this is both incredibly noble and the highest-leverage point for systemic change.
“the best use of the power and leverage you have... is delivering narratives that empower individuals so that they know who they are they are better equipped to function and making sure that that happens in a way that uh your zip code doesn't predict your success in life that seems not only incredibly noble but it also seems like the leverage point”
Couples requiring 50/50 ownership rather than 51/49 creates the condition for either loggerheads or genuine negotiation; the risk of deadlock is worth the signal it sends about respect and equality.
“when the lawyer set it up i said create the ultimate divorce nightmare i do not want 51 percent i want 50 percent my wife's going to 50 and yes that means that we could hit loggerheads and this could all blow up but because my highest value is my marriage i want to send a very clear sign to my wife i don't need authority over you”
The business model of visionary-executor pairs (or in politics, the compassion-responsibility pair) requires mutual respect and understanding that both are necessary; without this, the system slides toward tyranny (if only responsibility) or ineffective dreaming (if only vision).
“the kite without the string just flies off into the ether the string without the kite just lays on the ground”
Science without visionary theory becomes a 'science of the costs'—just measuring whatever is measurable without asking what matters.
“what this has resulted in is basically a science of the the cos right there's no visionary stuff because effectively what theory still exists at least in a place like biology is theory practiced by uh empiricists in their spare time right it's not high quality”
Audrey Lorde's statement 'You can't dismantle the master's house with the master's tools' is widely misunderstood as meaning universal tools are corrupted; actually it's been used to disempower people by keeping them from using effective tools.
“heather and i have uh long wondered about this audrey lord quote about uh you can't take apart the master's house with the master's tools and it's just the most disempowering viewpoint i'm not even entirely sure what she meant but the way this is understood it just takes the most powerful things at that human disposal and keeps them in the hands of those who have had them longest”
The Hopi saying 'We are the ones we've been waiting for' captures the deep truth that change requires people stepping up now, not waiting for others to act.
“there's a saying that i'm very fond of it's a hopi saying we are the ones we've been waiting for right and i think it's just impossibly deep”
Bilyeu's meaning of life: the meaning of life is to see how much of your potential you can translate into usable skill set, and that skill set should be unique to you, something you worked hard to acquire, something you care deeply about, and something that helps not only yourself but other people.
“my definition is very simple the meaning of life is to see how much of your potential you can translate into usable skill set and that that to me and then you can you know even take it one step further and say and that skill set should be something that's unique to you that you care deeply about you worked your ass off to acquire and it helps not only yourself but other people”
The punch line of life is 'how you feel about yourself when you're by yourself'—this is what ultimately matters; wealth does not solve fundamental psychological problems related to self-regard.
“the punch line of life is exactly the following how you feel about yourself when you're by yourself it's all that matters”
Personal power is defined as the ability to close your eyes, imagine a world better than this one, and then open your eyes and make that world come true through skill and action; without skill, you are disempowered.
“let me define power for you power is the ability to close your eyes imagine a world a world better than this one and then open your eyes and be able to make that world come true because it's going to require you to do things and if you don't have the skill set to do those things you are disempowered”
If your actions make it hard for you to sleep at night, you are not deploying your tools correctly; alignment between actions and values is a practical test of whether one is living rightly.
“a you need to be able to sleep right if you are doing something that makes it hard for you to get to sleep probably you're not doing the right thing with those tools”
Andrew Yang has been pressured to sign agreements preventing him from running again, which is deeply problematic; in a healthy democracy, commitment is based on mutual trust, not contracts that remove qualified candidates from circulation.
“andrew yang is thinking that it does right in fact i saw an interview in which he ominously said that he had signed something that said he was going to step out of the race this time and not do anything that might interfere with it who is asking him to sign what this is a democracy who knows what the future holds why would any honorable person ask somebody who is clearly capable qualified for the job why would you take anybody off the map with their signature”
It is shameful and inexplicable why anyone would choose to return to population-level conflict after discovering that inclusive cooperation is possible; this choice represents a reversal of human progress.
“it is shameful to return there after having discovered that something else is possible and i just i can't imagine why anybody is going to be surprised that the outgrowth of putting race first is going to be um you know i mean maybe leonard cohen got it i've seen the future brother it's murder”
Thomas Sowell is exceptional among contemporary intellectuals in following data wherever it leads rather than defending a predetermined agenda, making him a model for intellectual integrity.
“thomas soule to me...when i look at him i see he might as well be wearing a superman outfit like when you hear that guy talk he's so smart in a way that i'm so covetous of...whenever somebody debates him he's always like show me the data like i will follow the data wherever it goes i don't have some agenda that i'm trying to push”
Andrew Yang is the ideal representative of the left in a Unity ticket not because of specific policy positions like UBI, but because he is intelligent, patriotic, insightful, and motivated by the right things; if he found UBI didn't work in practice, he would be willing to adopt better solutions.
“the reason that i named him as a member the the left leaning member of the the prototypical ticket is that he is uh very insightful he's clearly motivated by the right things... i'm not sure i believe in ubi as presented but my sense is there it's a problem that needs to be addressed ubi is a proposal it proves that andrew is interested in the right things”
Finding two leaders capable of genuine partnership, sharing vision, both with charisma and oratory power, both willing to fight for people while maintaining integrity—is 'going to be crazy hard' but essential.
“if you could find them and then we had somebody to rally around somebody that could inspire us give us chills right when they're up there and they're like because there is a martin luther king's i had a dream speech put to music dude it's unbelievable and if we had somebody that can rally like that i i will make the assumption...finding that in two people is going to be crazy hard but if you could find them”
There are compelling pairs of left/right candidates for the unity ticket available right now; the missing ingredient is not lack of candidates but courage to step up and accept reputational risk in dangerous moment.
“maybe it's time i don't think it's so hard to find people who could inhabit the role we have a list of people on both left and right who i think make for compelling pairs the question is is anybody ready to step up in a dangerous moment without uh without the guarantee that uh the ground swell will emerge”
Nelson Mandela's Long Walk to Freedom demonstrates the possibility of leaders who combine vision, integrity, and personal sacrifice in a way that should inspire contemporary political movements.
“i will make the assumption you've read long walk to freedom no oh my god you're going to love it nelson mandela long walk to freedom [ __ ] blew my mind and it it made me ache for the fact that i read that after he died and i was just like i need to know somebody like this”
Barack Obama's 2008 election was a genuine civilizational breakthrough—42 years after the Civil Rights Act, a Black president with the slogan 'hope' provided authentic inspiration that was rightfully thrilling regardless of subsequent policy assessments.
“when barack obama came along ignore the the effect of the policies when he got elected man it was [ __ ] electric and i was over the moon i loved the slogan um the whole notion of hope um having uh a person you know i mean we're we're still shouting distance from the civil rights movement and in what was it 42 years later you have a black president i mean i was like [ __ ] yes man like that was so thrilling to me”