A major source of unnecessary mental load is thinking about future tasks that cannot yet be acted upon (e.g., 'next year I need to remember to schedule this appointment for my child'), which takes up mental space even though it is not actionable right now; setting a calendar reminder in the future (e.g., Google Calendar invitation for January 31, 2028) to discuss or act on that item allows the brain to stop constantly reminding itself about it.

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Jessica Baum

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things that I'm like oh next year I need to remember to make sure that I scheduled this kind of appointment for my child but it's not something I can do for a year... it's not something you can you can take action on yet right there's nothing actional about it and it just takes up so much space in my brain... I will like set a date in the future in my Google Calendar... talk about X on January you know 31st

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10 Game-Changing Tips for Managing the Mental Load with ADHDHow to ADHD
Created: 8/13/2026, 7:47:09 AM

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