Trying to control what cannot be controlled puts you on edge, increases mental load beyond what is necessary, and makes emotional regulation harder; acceptance of what is uncontrollable is a form of psychological relief.

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Laura Key

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trying to control what can't be controlled is part of what puts us on edge is part of what's going to make us not only carry a heavier mental load than we need to but also make it harder for us to emotionally regulate

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10 Game-Changing Tips for Managing the Mental Load with ADHDHow to ADHD
Created: 8/13/2026, 7:47:09 AM

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